Just a Thought

Hello everybody!  I haven’t been blogging much lately.  I just haven’t felt like it.  But today, I think I just need to write a bit to get some things off my chest.  Last week I had to take Dash to a doctor’s appointment.  It was an extremely warm day, I and needed to stop at the grocery store on the way home.  While pulling into the driveway of the parking lot, my car died.  I started it back up and got into a parking lot.  I immediately unloaded the carseat (and Dash of course :)  from the car and into a grocery cart and decided what to do.  I thought I saw my mother in law’s van in the parking lot, so I walked closer to investigate.  If it was her, I could find her in the store and ask for a ride home.  As I neared the van, an older lady began yelling at me.  “You’re going to cook your baby!”  I thought she was just saying that it was hot outside.  I laughed and said, “I know.”  She proceeded to yell and said in a desperate voice, “You need to get him some air.”  Dash was simply covered up by the car seat canopy I had made him.  I made it a little short on the sides so he can usually always have air circulation.  He was fine, and actually more protected from the sun and heat than I was.  I didn’t even know how to react to this ranting woman, so I turned around and went into the store.

This lady had no idea what I had just gone through.  She had no idea that my car was giving me trouble and that I was counting my blessings that I had made it to a parking spot.  She didn't  know that because I was worried about my baby being out in the heat, I hadn’t checked my car out very well.  It was 111 that day, and I was rushing to get him inside the store.  Don’t worry, the story ended well.  I was able to get a ride home, and my husband checked my car out when he got home.  He couldn’t find anything wrong, so I still have a car to drive. 

As much as I’d love to be upset at this woman, I am taking it as a reminder that sometimes people are going through a lot more than we think they are.  And if we were aware of what they are going through, we would probably be a little more accepting and lenient on him.  It was a great reminder to be slow to judge others.

Thanks for letting me share!  Have a wonderful day,

Lynette